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If You're Pregnant
    Profiles of Families Waiting to Adopt

Below you will find the Dear Birth Mother/Birth Parent Letters from the Friends in Adoption pool of carefully screened families that are hoping to adopt. In them, the waiting families describe their home, their relationship, their families, work and what is important to them. Through Friends in Adoption's open and compassionate services, you get to choose and meet the waiting adoptive families of your choice, and you get to choose the level of openness you prefer. You are welcome and encouraged to contact any of the listed familes below. Alternatively, you can contact Friends in Adoption anytime at 1-800-844-3630.



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Steve, Lori & Jared
Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us. We realize that out of love you want what is best for your baby. Please feel certain that we will raise your baby with love and will help him or her reach their fullest potential in life. We are honored to be able to share a bit of our life with you and hope these words and photos will give you a sense of who we are and what we share as a family.


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Conio, Cliff & Grace
A few short years ago, our lives were changed forever when a bright, beautiful young woman made the loving and courageous choice for us to adopt her baby girl. Our dream came true! And now we are dreaming again of our family growing through the miracle of adoption.



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Gini, Sue & Alexandra
The opportunity of bringing another child into our lives is our greatest dream, but we don’t take it lightly. Adoption is a great responsibility, an amazing journey and the promise of a loving lifetime with our new child. We admire and respect your courage for considering an adoption plan. We look forward to the fulfillment of our dream; finding, adopting and welcoming that special child into our family. Your baby will be loved more than words can express. We encourage you to look at our profile and visit our website, once you begin to know who we are, we believe you will choose us.


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Debbie & Tommy
Hi, we're Debbie and Tommy and we feel privileged that you are taking some time to read our letter! We recognize that you are considering making an adoption plan for your baby, and realize that your decision is being made out of pure love for your child. We want you to know that our decision to adopt is also being made with great love.



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Paul, Claudine & Daniel
We would like to thank you for taking the time to read about us. We are grateful for this opportunity to share a little about ourselves, our families, and the loving home we would be honored to provide for your child. We realize that you are faced with a difficult and important decision and that out of love, you want the best for your baby. We hope that after reading our story, you will know how much love we have to offer your child.


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Robyn & Lisa
Laughter and adventure fill our lives and we can’t wait to share them with a child. Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little bit about us. We can only imagine the strength, courage and selflessness it must take for you to consider this plan for your baby. You have our word that should you choose us, we will always give your child our deepest love and encouragement and promise to always make him or her feel safe and sound.



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Chris & Dan
Please know that becoming parents is a role that we will take very seriously and we will be forever grateful to you for the opportunity to provide your child with a loving and supportive home.


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Kris, Lauri & Maryn
Thank you for the privilege of considering our profile. We know that this is a very stressful time for you, and we recognize the courage and fortitude required to consider an adoption plan for your child. Though our profile will provide greater insight as to what life in our world might be like, the basic message is simple - should you select us to parent your child, be assured that he or she will be wildly celebrated, loved, and treasured...every day of his or her life.



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Tom & Cheryl
We commend you for the courageous choice you are making for your child. We truly hope that you have all the love and support you need to get through this time in your life. We know that you want what is best for him or her, and thank you for taking the time to consider us as potential parents.


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Steven & Leslie
With all the love in our hearts we’d like to thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We respect your strength and courage as you consider this difficult decision. We want you to know that we will provide every opportunity for your child. We hope that as you read on you will learn more about us, our families and our dreams of filling our home with the love and laughter of a child.



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Howie & Allan
We admire the incredible amount of courage and love you have for your baby. We thank you for reading our profile and hope that it will help you to learn more about us. We want you to know that if you decide to place your child with us, your child will find a home full of love with an enormous amount of warmth and a supportive family.


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Lisa
Words cannot express how truly honored I feel to be able to share my story with you. Your courage and respect for your child are to be admired. I am committed to providing a child a home filled with warm hugs, loads of laughter and unconditional love.



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Sharon, Jon & Liana
We admire your courage in researching all of your options. We also thank you for taking the time getting to know our happy family. We look forward to getting to know you as well.


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Tony & Deborah
We would like to start by saying that we have great respect for you and the unselfish love you have for your child as you consider an adoption plan. Thank you for allowing us to share our story with you. We hope it helps you with your decision as you get to know us as a loving and caring family.



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Jack & Lorraine
First we’d like to say we have tremendous respect for your strength and love in trying to make a decision that is right for both your child and yourself. We know you face many choices.We can’t know everything you are feeling right now but we’re pretty sure you want to have confidence in whoever you choose. We hope you will find, as you read our story that we are deserving of your trust. Thanks for taking the time to get to know us.


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Danny & Fran
Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We have gone over this letter to you so many times, trying to find the right words. We wanted it to be from the heart, because we are in awe of your strength and bravery as you consider all the options for your baby.



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Lynne & Dave
We would like to start by saying hello and expressing our admiration and thanks for your courage while you are going through this difficult time and considering placing your child for adoption. This is a very important time in all of our lives, and we want to approach it together with strength, understanding, and support.


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Mike & Penelope
Thank you for spending some time with us! We know you are facing some difficult decisions right now, and we truly admire your strength and determination as you plan for your child’s future. Thank you for including us in your thoughts, and welcome to this short profile of our home and our lives together…



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Tim, Matt & Jamie
At this difficult time in your life we want you to know that we admire your courage to consider an adoption plan for your baby. By reading a little about our family we hope that you will see the love in our hearts and our joy of being parents. We look forward to sharing our lives with a new baby.


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Rick & Laurie
Thank you for taking a moment to find out who we are. We have the greatest respect for the care you are taking in figuring out what is best for your baby. We have so much love to share and are so excited about becoming parents. Our dream is to provide a safe, happy home for a child. We hope you will consider us as loving adoptive parents.



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Graham & Joe
We are ready to raise a child to be safe, happy, healthy and secure in our home. A child in our home would be the center of attention and adored by all our supportive family and many friends; they would never forget where they came from and who they are. They will be loved and cherished every day and given every opportunity to be their best.


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Jody, Bill & Billy
We understand that this must be a very difficult decision for you to make and we respect your courage and commitment to provide your child with a secure future even if that means choosing someone else to parent your child. We will be happy to do everything we can to help you through this emotional time and we promise you that your child will grow up knowing how strong and loving you were in choosing our family.



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Sharon & Amy
Thank you for taking the time to consider our family. We hope we can show you who we are through these words and photos and can share our great joy in the prospect of becoming parents to your baby. We’d also like to get to know more about you and your special talents, skills, and interests so that we can look for these characteristics and nurture them in your child. We respect your strength and courage in this process.


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Russell & Rob
We are happy that you have taken the time to review our profile as you begin to consider the future of your unborn child. As a gay couple, we have spent a lot of time exploring the means by which we would seek to bring a child into our family. We believe that your journey as a woman considering an adoption plan and our journey as an adoptive couple share a common bond - shared hopes and dreams for a child that has yet to be born but that already has touched all of our hearts in ways too numerous to count and, at times, too difficult to fully comprehend.



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Joseph & Joe
Thank you for taking the time to learn about us, it is with great respect that we write to you. We are humbled by the weight of your decision and pray that you find comfort and peace in the choices ahead, whatever your decision may be. We hope that by reading about us, you get a glimpse of who we are, our life together and the love we have to share.


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Ed, Susan & Ashley
We would like to thank you for taking time to read our profile and begin to get to know our family.We hope that we can show you, through our profile, how much love we have to offer your child. We can only imagine how difficult a decision this must be for you but be assured that we would welcome your child into our family with a lot of love and happiness.



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Chip & Ben
Thanks for reading our profile. We want you to know how we want to grow our family and the things that are really important to us: family, friends and, of course, lots and lots of fun. We want to offer a child a safe and secure future and give him or her the tools needed to be happy and successful.


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Ron & Robin
Thank you so much for taking some time to get to know a little about us. We are so honored and excited that our life journey has led us to adoption and to you. Please know that we believe that loving a child requires no biological connection and that being a parent is about living a life that honors the child. We know that this decision takes tremendous courage and strength to even consider. It requires a level of maturity and selflessness that most cannot bring from within. It is people like you that we most respect in this world. Should we welcome your child into our fold, they will always know of the great love that you possess. We will never take your selfless act for granted and we will cherish the joy that your child has brought into our lives.



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Eva, Eliza & Klara
We promise that if you choose to place your child with us, your child will have a warm and loving home where his or her spirit and mind will be nurtured and encouraged to blossom. He or she will feel our unconditional love throughout life.


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Ezra & James
As you consider the many people who dream of providing a loving home for your child, we’d like to thank you for taking a moment to get to know us. We hope that you will connect with the pictures of our life so far and see the love, happiness, and adventure we plan to give to the baby who joins our family. This is our promise to you.



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Jenn & Jeff
We want to thank you for your interest in learning more about us. Although we cannot begin to understand the path that has brought you to us, we do know that you must be a caring, brave, and loving person because you are considering an adoption plan for your child.


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John & Kristin
We admire your selflessness, and we hope that you will consider us as adoptive parents for your child.We both truly believe that everyday is a gift, and we will work hard to listen, learn and grow along with your child. We are committed in our love and marriage and would be blessed to share that with you and your child.



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Rob & Laura
Thank you for taking time to learn a little bit more about us. Considering an adoption plan shows incredible strength and love for your child and is a truly selfless act. We hope the following pages give you a brief snapshot of who we are and help you feel confident that your child will be warmly welcomed into our loving and secure home.


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Carroll & Scott
Hi! We’re Carroll & Scott and we would like to thank you for the chance to introduce ourselves to you. We are honored that you would like to get to know more about us. We can only imagine how difficult this decision is for you and we want you to know that your feelings are important to us. We admire you for your strength and courage in determining the future you feel is best for your child.



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Frank & Maryanne
First...We would like to say hello and thank you for taking the time to read our profile. We understand that this is a very difficult decision you are about to make and we admire your courage and strength.We know you love your baby very much and you must be comfortable in your heart before making your final choice.We can’t pretend that we know what you are going through, but we can assure you that we have been waiting a long time to complete our family and if you choose us, we promise to welcome him/her into our hearts and our family with unconditional love and continued support.


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Peggy & Graham
Thanks so much for taking a look at our profile! We're excited about introducing ourselves to you and hope that if you decide that adoption is right for you, that you will consider us.



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Arne & Caroline
So this is our life in a nutshell. We really hope that we can find the right voice to give you an idea of who we are in these few pages and pictures – to be sincere and decent in doing so. Because that’s what we are trying to do – to live a life of sincerity and decency. The only thing we know about you is that you must be trying to do the same thing, which makes our hearts go out to you. We hope that through these pages we can show you something of our values, our life, our family, our friends, and our desire to love, nurture and raise a child.


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Joe, Jean-Charles and Sara
We can only imagine how difficult it is for you while considering all the options for your baby. We admire your decision to consider adoption. We understand that making a choice will not be easy but we know that whatever you decide will be out of love for your baby.



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Regina & Karl
We realize and respect the fact that you are in the process of making what cannot be an easy decision for you. We admire you for the love you are showing by considering an adoption plan for you and your child. We hope we can fulfill your wish to find a loving and nurturing family for your child. Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us.


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Brigette & Shawn
We want you to know that we have a great deal of respect and admiration for you as you bravely explore what is best for you and your baby. If you decide that adoption is the best plan for you, we promise to provide your baby with a loving, nurturing, and fun filled home; surrounded by family and friends.



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Jordan & Mindi
We are excited to share some of our family experiences, upbringing, and values instilled by our parents. We can't wait to provide a child of our own with many of the same experiences so he or she can grow up happy, healthy, confident, and most importantly, knowing they are loved.


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Keith, Megan & Kerrigan
We realize that considering adoption for your child is difficult – so please know that your bravery will always live in our hearts.We admire you so much for your strength, courage and determination for choosing the future you feel is best for your child. Please accept our heartfelt gratitude and thanks during your decision making process.



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Diana, Lou & Matthew
Thank you for taking the time to look at our profile. Most importantly, thank you for considering us for such a critical role in your life. While we can’t understand what you’re going through, we do hope that you find peace and comfort through this difficult time. Maybe just like you, we’re looking for someone to answer our prayers. We have always dreamed of having a big family and by reading this, you’re considering being the one to make our dreams come true. For that consideration alone, we thank you so much.


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Jason & Ann Marie
We would be honored if you read our profile and considered us to adopt your child. We can only imagine what challenging decisions face you in the near future and we hope that after reading a little bit about us you will have a better understanding of how excited we are for the day we can open our home and our hearts to a baby.



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Mark, Steven & Derek
Having each grown up with a sibling, we always saw ourselves as having two children, knowing how important a lifelong bond with a brother or sister can be. We’re hoping you can help us grow our family, and we hope that the pictures you see here will give you a glimpse of the home that awaits. . .


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Magda & Mike
We know that you are on an important journey. Becoming parents has been our hope for more than 10 years. We are committed to raising a child within a family that shares, dreams and loves, and feel honored that you are considering us as future adoptive parents for your baby.



FIA Clients Only - Instructions for getting your profile on www.friendsinadoption.org:

All clients should call 1-802-434-6336 or e-mail info@iLUCID.net before sending any profiles.

Please Note: We will try to have profile materials received by the 15th of each month posted to the website by the end of that month. Information and materials received after the 15th might have to wait until the following cycle. We wish to ensure that we get the information correct the first time to prevent delays of your profile.

To get your profile on FIA's site please mail (yes snail mail is ideal for this - often times there are issues when emailing large files!):

  • A Hard Copy of your profile
  • A CD or PC Zip Disk with .jpg and/or .tif files of your photos (please limit to 10-20 of your favorites) and a Microsoft Word or plain text (.txt) file of the text that goes with your profile.
  • Optional: If you include an Adobe Acrobat file in .pdf file format of your profile we'll put a link to it from your web profile so viewers can print it out nicely (please note we will not be able to edit your .pdf file for you and will be putting it up as is!) However, if you would like us to create your .pdf file for you please contact iLUCID.net for complete instructions. Please note: a separate fee will apply for this service.
  • Check for $150 made out to: iLUCID, LLC (will not be deposited until your profile is live).

Not sure what all that means? You are not alone! Give us a call and we'll help you figure it out.

TIP: A good place to start is to contact the person who did your print profile and let them know what we need - mostly likely they already have it.

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44 South Street
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Middletown Springs, VT 05757-1228


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